Hello Yimpers! Today I want to share with you some tips on what topics are best to avoid on a first date. We all know that first impressions are crucial and that an interesting conversation can make the difference between a second date and a definitive goodbye. So, here are the five topics that are best left off the table on a date:
1. Ex-Boyfriends and Past Relationships
Talking about ex-boyfriends can be a sensitive and potentially awkward topic. Bringing up your ex can give the impression that you’re not over the relationship yet or that you’re comparing your date to someone from the past. Instead, focus on the present and getting to know the person in front of you.
2. Politics
Politics is a topic that can quickly cause division and tension. Since you likely don’t know your date’s political views well, it’s best to avoid this topic so you don’t risk getting into an awkward argument. If the relationship progresses, there will be time to address these topics later.
In short, the key to a good conversation on a first date is to keep it light, positive and focused on getting to know the other person. By avoiding these topics, you will be saved!!
3. Religion
Religion can be a very personal and meaningful topic for many people. Discussing religious beliefs on a first date can be risky as you might hit a nerve. It’s best to wait for the relationship to progress a little further before delving into these types of conversations.
4. Financial Issues
Talking about money and financial issues can be awkward and off-putting on a first date. This topic can give the impression that you care too much about finances or that you have some sort of financial interest. Keep the conversation light and focused on more neutral topics.
5. Complaints and Negativity
No one wants to spend time with someone who constantly complains or has a negative attitude. Avoid talking about your problems, complaints about work, or anything else that might give a negative impression. Instead, focus on positive and cheerful topics that can create a more pleasant connection.
I hope these tips will help you on your next dates. See you at Yimpy!